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		<title>Comment on I&#8217;m the Poster Child for Public Healthcare by evil is evil</title>
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		<dc:creator>evil is evil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 02:41:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wish to hell I had known this two months ago.  I am on disability and I live in a third world section of a second world country.

About 6 months ago, I started making comments to some woman who blogged.  She was in the states. I&#039;ve never met her.  She posted some pictures of a friend of hers on her site.

A person who claimed to be a radiologist in Switzerland said &quot;that needs to be checked immediately.&quot; 

Woman, unemployed, probably in her 50s, couldn&#039;t afford to see a GP.  I left my soul in Vietnam but I try to be human.  She is in a central american country. Doesn&#039;t speak the language but it was the best that I could afford.  Email today that the radiologist believes the surgery got all of it.  How much has it cost me?  I have no idea.  It doesn&#039;t matter.  She has a shot.  How much does chemo cost? I have no idea, but I&#039;ll go down trying to get her treated.

Yes, I am a radical atheist.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wish to hell I had known this two months ago.  I am on disability and I live in a third world section of a second world country.</p>
<p>About 6 months ago, I started making comments to some woman who blogged.  She was in the states. I&#8217;ve never met her.  She posted some pictures of a friend of hers on her site.</p>
<p>A person who claimed to be a radiologist in Switzerland said &#8220;that needs to be checked immediately.&#8221; </p>
<p>Woman, unemployed, probably in her 50s, couldn&#8217;t afford to see a GP.  I left my soul in Vietnam but I try to be human.  She is in a central american country. Doesn&#8217;t speak the language but it was the best that I could afford.  Email today that the radiologist believes the surgery got all of it.  How much has it cost me?  I have no idea.  It doesn&#8217;t matter.  She has a shot.  How much does chemo cost? I have no idea, but I&#8217;ll go down trying to get her treated.</p>
<p>Yes, I am a radical atheist.</p>
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		<title>Comment on I&#8217;m the Poster Child for Public Healthcare by Tooty Nolan</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/11/03/im-the-poster-child-for-public-healthcare/#comment-1201</link>
		<dc:creator>Tooty Nolan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 16:44:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In your Huffington article you made reference to the British health care system (NHS). Well it sounds awfully similar to the Oregon system - except that it&#039;s for everyone. The NHS gets a lot of bad press - but it&#039;s certainly come through for my family and I when we&#039;ve most needed it. Like you my wife had breast cancer, and it was treated in exactly the same way. If the U.S took a leaf out of Oregon&#039;s book, and made it all-inclusive (like the NHS), it would be a far fairer, and happier society. It seems to me that there&#039;s too many dirty fingers in too many cash-rich pies right now. Why else would so many be so opposed to Obama&#039;s plans? An excellent article.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In your Huffington article you made reference to the British health care system (NHS). Well it sounds awfully similar to the Oregon system &#8211; except that it&#8217;s for everyone. The NHS gets a lot of bad press &#8211; but it&#8217;s certainly come through for my family and I when we&#8217;ve most needed it. Like you my wife had breast cancer, and it was treated in exactly the same way. If the U.S took a leaf out of Oregon&#8217;s book, and made it all-inclusive (like the NHS), it would be a far fairer, and happier society. It seems to me that there&#8217;s too many dirty fingers in too many cash-rich pies right now. Why else would so many be so opposed to Obama&#8217;s plans? An excellent article.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Pure Med Spa Again by Tiffany</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/03/17/pure-med-spa-again/#comment-1200</link>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 02:11:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lara!

Kudos to you for starting this blog....I wish there was a way we could alert EVERYONE in the US and CANADA...Jeff Nourse is a Con artist! He is the worst kind of low life pond scum out there! Everyone is considered a &quot;friend&quot; or &quot;valued employee&quot; until you speak up about the fact that you have bills to pay, and need your paycheck on time, or are worried about purposely misleading customers and patients down the pathway to hell, literally taking their money with promises of not only receiving the product you paid for, but have your treatment performed by a trained professional, under the supervision of a Medical Director!! I am shocked at the so called &quot;Employee&quot; that wrote in to defend the criminal behaviour happening on a daily basis! Yes, as a Consumer it is our responsibility to ask questions....it is the responsibility of PUREMED, BRITESMILE (or whatever name of the moment they are using) to have experienced, informed and knowledgeable, trained staff available to give CORRECT and candid answers to those questions. It makes me sick to think that Jeff Nourse has the gall to continue to scam hard working, trusting clients, out of their money, and knowingly mislead people into believing they are entrusting their health and very livelihood into the hands of often, but not always, barely trained, careless people. Don&#039;t be fooled....you don&#039;t have to be in the &#039;Industry&#039; to know what a criminal Jeff Nourse is, what a scam Pure/BriteSmile Canada is, and always has been! The people that work with him, continue to deflect the criticism and the true, for fear of NEVER getting the pay they deserve. Jeff Nourse does not have a problem spending all his &#039;ill gotten gains&#039; on himself...lavishing in the lap of luxury, fancy cars (that he can&#039;t drive, due to losing his driver&#039;s license for DUI), vacations on his yacht in Florida. Yet he can&#039;t meet his payroll obligations to employees, never mind the Doctors he has begged to work for him, and then subsequently quit because they had consciences and believed in the hypocratic oath they took when they became Physicians and Nurses, but also the hundreds and thousands of dollars he owes both Allergan and Medicis. He can&#039;t get credit, and has resorted to bribeing employees to order product under their personal credit....and surprise, they are left holding the &quot;bill&quot;. This low life should be behind bars....he needs to be exposed for the narcissitic, criminal he really is! PLEASE.....DO NOT BE FOOLED....if not for the sake of your pocketbook then for your health...STAY AWAY FROM BRITESMILE AND PUREMEDSPA IN THE UNITED STATES AND CANADA....JEFF NOURSE IS THE CON BEHIND BOTH SCHEMES.
All this being, I did encounter some amazing staff who tried their best. In all likelihood, they are probably just as frustrated as the majority of the clients.
If you are in the media and truly wish to do an expose on this unethical company and it&#039;s CEO I would love to speak with you personally, with the provision of anonymity.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lara!</p>
<p>Kudos to you for starting this blog&#8230;.I wish there was a way we could alert EVERYONE in the US and CANADA&#8230;Jeff Nourse is a Con artist! He is the worst kind of low life pond scum out there! Everyone is considered a &#8220;friend&#8221; or &#8220;valued employee&#8221; until you speak up about the fact that you have bills to pay, and need your paycheck on time, or are worried about purposely misleading customers and patients down the pathway to hell, literally taking their money with promises of not only receiving the product you paid for, but have your treatment performed by a trained professional, under the supervision of a Medical Director!! I am shocked at the so called &#8220;Employee&#8221; that wrote in to defend the criminal behaviour happening on a daily basis! Yes, as a Consumer it is our responsibility to ask questions&#8230;.it is the responsibility of PUREMED, BRITESMILE (or whatever name of the moment they are using) to have experienced, informed and knowledgeable, trained staff available to give CORRECT and candid answers to those questions. It makes me sick to think that Jeff Nourse has the gall to continue to scam hard working, trusting clients, out of their money, and knowingly mislead people into believing they are entrusting their health and very livelihood into the hands of often, but not always, barely trained, careless people. Don&#8217;t be fooled&#8230;.you don&#8217;t have to be in the &#8216;Industry&#8217; to know what a criminal Jeff Nourse is, what a scam Pure/BriteSmile Canada is, and always has been! The people that work with him, continue to deflect the criticism and the true, for fear of NEVER getting the pay they deserve. Jeff Nourse does not have a problem spending all his &#8216;ill gotten gains&#8217; on himself&#8230;lavishing in the lap of luxury, fancy cars (that he can&#8217;t drive, due to losing his driver&#8217;s license for DUI), vacations on his yacht in Florida. Yet he can&#8217;t meet his payroll obligations to employees, never mind the Doctors he has begged to work for him, and then subsequently quit because they had consciences and believed in the hypocratic oath they took when they became Physicians and Nurses, but also the hundreds and thousands of dollars he owes both Allergan and Medicis. He can&#8217;t get credit, and has resorted to bribeing employees to order product under their personal credit&#8230;.and surprise, they are left holding the &#8220;bill&#8221;. This low life should be behind bars&#8230;.he needs to be exposed for the narcissitic, criminal he really is! PLEASE&#8230;..DO NOT BE FOOLED&#8230;.if not for the sake of your pocketbook then for your health&#8230;STAY AWAY FROM BRITESMILE AND PUREMEDSPA IN THE UNITED STATES AND CANADA&#8230;.JEFF NOURSE IS THE CON BEHIND BOTH SCHEMES.<br />
All this being, I did encounter some amazing staff who tried their best. In all likelihood, they are probably just as frustrated as the majority of the clients.<br />
If you are in the media and truly wish to do an expose on this unethical company and it&#8217;s CEO I would love to speak with you personally, with the provision of anonymity.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Let&#8217;s Eliminate Pure Med Spa by former employee</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2008/11/24/lets-eliminate-pure-med-spa/#comment-1199</link>
		<dc:creator>former employee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:39:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a former employee of BriteSmile BriteSkin Med Spa formally Pure Med Spa.  They have changed their name again to Pure Med Spa featuring BriteSmile.

This company is the worst company around.  DO NOT buy anything from them.  Paychecks are bouncing, and all they care about is selling, selling, selling.  Prepay treatments are what they expect.  They don&#039;t pay the rent. Paychecks are late again.  Why are these people still in business.  I don&#039;t get it.  Jeff Nourse and Louise Talbot are bad people.  I feel badly for the people who continue to work there.  They like to hire people that are single mom&#039;s so they have to work and will do anything to make money.  Half of the centers don&#039;t even have medical directors and they continue to use licenses of Dr&#039;s who are no longer with the company.  THIS ILLEGAL!!  Someone should report to AMA.  This company should be shut down.  They don&#039;t have any money to buy products so the nurses reuse needles.  This is disgusting.  Shut them down!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a former employee of BriteSmile BriteSkin Med Spa formally Pure Med Spa.  They have changed their name again to Pure Med Spa featuring BriteSmile.</p>
<p>This company is the worst company around.  DO NOT buy anything from them.  Paychecks are bouncing, and all they care about is selling, selling, selling.  Prepay treatments are what they expect.  They don&#8217;t pay the rent. Paychecks are late again.  Why are these people still in business.  I don&#8217;t get it.  Jeff Nourse and Louise Talbot are bad people.  I feel badly for the people who continue to work there.  They like to hire people that are single mom&#8217;s so they have to work and will do anything to make money.  Half of the centers don&#8217;t even have medical directors and they continue to use licenses of Dr&#8217;s who are no longer with the company.  THIS ILLEGAL!!  Someone should report to AMA.  This company should be shut down.  They don&#8217;t have any money to buy products so the nurses reuse needles.  This is disgusting.  Shut them down!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Pure Med Spa Again by Jennifer prizant</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/03/17/pure-med-spa-again/#comment-1196</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer prizant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 09:20:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello

So it&#039;s really late and after reading California State laws regarding Med Spa I found you!

I AM FURIOUS with Pure med spa after purchasing $1,500 in fillers which was Special sale in 2007 they never had product to inject, then Beverly Center location closed and they shuttle me to Sherman Oaks lost my chart for 3 months.

Finally last week I go in for treatment and my nurse quit
then Michele the new Manager promised she find me a qualified RN. I show up 3 weeks ago and am greeted by this BITCH NADIA
who job is to intimidate into leaving spa, as she claimed my credit was no longer good. BULL
I had injections and had a terrible reaction under my eyes they swelled so bad it has affected my vision!
The next day I called to find Dr SOLOMAN and after 10 locations ( Pure SPA) in California clearly he is a paper only Dr.

I am suppose to see hime in Beverly Hills Bright Smile this week he asked if I massaged area NO the nurse advised 
me not to!
I reported them to Medicis FDA Health Dept like to do more
and make them pay for poor business practices
Thanks Jennifer
October 30, 2009</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello</p>
<p>So it&#8217;s really late and after reading California State laws regarding Med Spa I found you!</p>
<p>I AM FURIOUS with Pure med spa after purchasing $1,500 in fillers which was Special sale in 2007 they never had product to inject, then Beverly Center location closed and they shuttle me to Sherman Oaks lost my chart for 3 months.</p>
<p>Finally last week I go in for treatment and my nurse quit<br />
then Michele the new Manager promised she find me a qualified RN. I show up 3 weeks ago and am greeted by this BITCH NADIA<br />
who job is to intimidate into leaving spa, as she claimed my credit was no longer good. BULL<br />
I had injections and had a terrible reaction under my eyes they swelled so bad it has affected my vision!<br />
The next day I called to find Dr SOLOMAN and after 10 locations ( Pure SPA) in California clearly he is a paper only Dr.</p>
<p>I am suppose to see hime in Beverly Hills Bright Smile this week he asked if I massaged area NO the nurse advised<br />
me not to!<br />
I reported them to Medicis FDA Health Dept like to do more<br />
and make them pay for poor business practices<br />
Thanks Jennifer<br />
October 30, 2009</p>
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		<title>Comment on Pure Med Spa Again by VeryUpsetCustomer</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/03/17/pure-med-spa-again/#comment-1190</link>
		<dc:creator>VeryUpsetCustomer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 20:19:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I prepaid for half of my treatments, one thousand dollars. I never signed anything. I was never told of the No-Refund Policy. And now I can not have the treatments because of a just diagnosed skin condition. The location I went to to receive my treatments can not help me, and told me to contact corporate. I have been calling corporate multiple times each day since then and no one has called me back. I will be calling them every day till they call me back.

I felt pressured in to buying these services and was not given adequate information after purchasing said services. I feel &quot;duped.&quot; 

The ladies who work there are not helpful and do not feel for the customer. I am contacting news stations as I type this to evaluate their business ethics. Pure Med Spa is a scam and NO ONE should use them. 

Please read all the reviews and complaints before you ever step near this fraudulent business.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I prepaid for half of my treatments, one thousand dollars. I never signed anything. I was never told of the No-Refund Policy. And now I can not have the treatments because of a just diagnosed skin condition. The location I went to to receive my treatments can not help me, and told me to contact corporate. I have been calling corporate multiple times each day since then and no one has called me back. I will be calling them every day till they call me back.</p>
<p>I felt pressured in to buying these services and was not given adequate information after purchasing said services. I feel &#8220;duped.&#8221; </p>
<p>The ladies who work there are not helpful and do not feel for the customer. I am contacting news stations as I type this to evaluate their business ethics. Pure Med Spa is a scam and NO ONE should use them. </p>
<p>Please read all the reviews and complaints before you ever step near this fraudulent business.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Pure Med Spa Again by Selene</title>
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		<dc:creator>Selene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 16:34:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ANYONE out there in the class action lawsuit world---
     I bought a huge package from Pure Medspa and on the 3rd treatment they SEVERELY laser burned my face, neck &amp; chest with blisters, deep black crust like scabs etc. I did not go back because I was scared of more scars and perminate damage— I still had to pay the entire contract off &amp; have never received any more treatments because they have said the lasers are too strong for my skin type &amp; living in SoCa my skin is in sun just by walking out side to my car so no more laser treatments for me—-! It took me 2 years to pay off the contract They NEVER FULL FILLED to save my FICO Score… I want to sue for my refund but don’t know how— Any advice or suggestions or lawsuits I can join to get my huge refund would be greatly appreciated—
Would love to join any lawsuit sit for interview, submit burn pictures etc---! I want my 1000&#039;s of dollars back + damages---!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ANYONE out there in the class action lawsuit world&#8212;<br />
     I bought a huge package from Pure Medspa and on the 3rd treatment they SEVERELY laser burned my face, neck &amp; chest with blisters, deep black crust like scabs etc. I did not go back because I was scared of more scars and perminate damage— I still had to pay the entire contract off &amp; have never received any more treatments because they have said the lasers are too strong for my skin type &amp; living in SoCa my skin is in sun just by walking out side to my car so no more laser treatments for me—-! It took me 2 years to pay off the contract They NEVER FULL FILLED to save my FICO Score… I want to sue for my refund but don’t know how— Any advice or suggestions or lawsuits I can join to get my huge refund would be greatly appreciated—<br />
Would love to join any lawsuit sit for interview, submit burn pictures etc&#8212;! I want my 1000&#8217;s of dollars back + damages&#8212;!</p>
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		<title>Comment on You be Sorry You Mess with Me Pure Med Spa by Selene</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2008/10/09/you-be-sorry-you-mess-with-me-pure-med-spa/#comment-1188</link>
		<dc:creator>Selene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 16:15:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I bought a huge package from Pure Medspa and on the 3rd treatment they SEVERELY laser burned my face, neck &amp; chest blisters, deep black crust like scabs etc. I did not go back because I was scared of more scars and perminate damage--- I still had to pay the entire contract off &amp; have never received any more treatments because they have said the lasers are too strong for my skin type &amp; living in SoCa my skin is in sun just by walking out side to my car so no more laser treatments for me----! It took me 2 years to pay off the contract They NEVER FULL FILLED to save my FICO Score... I want to sue for my refund but don&#039;t know how--- Any advice or suggestions or lawsuits I can join to get my huge refund would be greatly appreciated---</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I bought a huge package from Pure Medspa and on the 3rd treatment they SEVERELY laser burned my face, neck &amp; chest blisters, deep black crust like scabs etc. I did not go back because I was scared of more scars and perminate damage&#8212; I still had to pay the entire contract off &amp; have never received any more treatments because they have said the lasers are too strong for my skin type &amp; living in SoCa my skin is in sun just by walking out side to my car so no more laser treatments for me&#8212;-! It took me 2 years to pay off the contract They NEVER FULL FILLED to save my FICO Score&#8230; I want to sue for my refund but don&#8217;t know how&#8212; Any advice or suggestions or lawsuits I can join to get my huge refund would be greatly appreciated&#8212;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Good Riddance, Pure Med Spa by nigel</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2008/12/14/good-riddance-pure-med-spa/#comment-1187</link>
		<dc:creator>nigel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 21:04:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just wondering why you zapped your other blog, Moon? nigel@rosettamon.com .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just wondering why you zapped your other blog, Moon? <a href="mailto:nigel@rosettamon.com">nigel@rosettamon.com</a> .</p>
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		<title>Comment on Pure Med Spa Again by PureMed</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/03/17/pure-med-spa-again/#comment-1186</link>
		<dc:creator>PureMed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2009 02:47:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you have remaining services left on your contract from a Pure Med Spa that closed, you might be able to transfer these services to another location if there is near you.  THAT IS if you are willing to risk putting yourself in such DANGER! (Kidding)
I am a RN at Pure Med Spa.  The one that I work at  is struggling financially- they all are- but we are not a bunch of &quot;bimbos&quot;.  We are trained professionals. I am a licensed RN, with Plastic surgical and Esthetics experience.  I would never do anything to harm my patients, advise them to purchase anything they don&#039;t need, or anything that would be harmful, nor would I allow them to proceed with a procedure that is unsafe.  

It is your job as a consumer to ask questions about the person who is performing treatments on you (their education, training, experience, etc)  And to research and ask questions about the treatment to be performed BEFOREHAND.  I can educate you, yes. But you should do your homework as well.  

As for PURE MED SPA not refunding money for services not provided.. I have not seen that at my Med Spa.  

I am sorry for all of you who have had a terrible experience with my company.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you have remaining services left on your contract from a Pure Med Spa that closed, you might be able to transfer these services to another location if there is near you.  THAT IS if you are willing to risk putting yourself in such DANGER! (Kidding)<br />
I am a RN at Pure Med Spa.  The one that I work at  is struggling financially- they all are- but we are not a bunch of &#8220;bimbos&#8221;.  We are trained professionals. I am a licensed RN, with Plastic surgical and Esthetics experience.  I would never do anything to harm my patients, advise them to purchase anything they don&#8217;t need, or anything that would be harmful, nor would I allow them to proceed with a procedure that is unsafe.  </p>
<p>It is your job as a consumer to ask questions about the person who is performing treatments on you (their education, training, experience, etc)  And to research and ask questions about the treatment to be performed BEFOREHAND.  I can educate you, yes. But you should do your homework as well.  </p>
<p>As for PURE MED SPA not refunding money for services not provided.. I have not seen that at my Med Spa.  </p>
<p>I am sorry for all of you who have had a terrible experience with my company.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Good Riddance, Pure Med Spa by Linda</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2008/12/14/good-riddance-pure-med-spa/#comment-1185</link>
		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 01:51:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Please send information on the ways that the company is unethical. Were you ever asked to lie regarding sales policy, or whether something was defective, or something went wrong in a treatment?  

I was shocked by a Velashape machine, and now that I don&#039;t want to continue with any more sessions, they won&#039;t refund.  The Northwest manager stated that I first needed to file an incident report, and there was none.  Plus, the manager didn&#039;t say anything about it!   She was in the front of the store when it happened, and helped change the head on the machine!  The manager said that she was &quot;overly honest&quot;, yet she said she only needed to fill out a request for a refund.  Now, the Northwest manager tells me that only SHE can do that.  I didn&#039;t misunderstand... the manager lied.  The area manager said I might receive a refund on my Perlane purchase, but only because I had a reaction.  I told her I wanted a refund on my Botox and my Chem Peel/microderm package for sessions not used.  She said no.  These people are nuts...why does anyone work for them?! How can they stand to be around themselves?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please send information on the ways that the company is unethical. Were you ever asked to lie regarding sales policy, or whether something was defective, or something went wrong in a treatment?  </p>
<p>I was shocked by a Velashape machine, and now that I don&#8217;t want to continue with any more sessions, they won&#8217;t refund.  The Northwest manager stated that I first needed to file an incident report, and there was none.  Plus, the manager didn&#8217;t say anything about it!   She was in the front of the store when it happened, and helped change the head on the machine!  The manager said that she was &#8220;overly honest&#8221;, yet she said she only needed to fill out a request for a refund.  Now, the Northwest manager tells me that only SHE can do that.  I didn&#8217;t misunderstand&#8230; the manager lied.  The area manager said I might receive a refund on my Perlane purchase, but only because I had a reaction.  I told her I wanted a refund on my Botox and my Chem Peel/microderm package for sessions not used.  She said no.  These people are nuts&#8230;why does anyone work for them?! How can they stand to be around themselves?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Good Riddance, Pure Med Spa by Linda</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2008/12/14/good-riddance-pure-med-spa/#comment-1184</link>
		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 01:45:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Please contact me with information on the unethical practices of Pure Med Spa/Brite Smith/Jeff Nourse.  I plan on suing, and I need information that they are using specific unethical strategies.  Thanks.  Linda llimon@u.washington.edu
(253)278-4733</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please contact me with information on the unethical practices of Pure Med Spa/Brite Smith/Jeff Nourse.  I plan on suing, and I need information that they are using specific unethical strategies.  Thanks.  Linda <a href="mailto:llimon@u.washington.edu">llimon@u.washington.edu</a><br />
(253)278-4733</p>
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		<title>Comment on Good Riddance, Pure Med Spa by Linda</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2008/12/14/good-riddance-pure-med-spa/#comment-1183</link>
		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 01:34:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish I could believe that this company had changed, but it has not.  I have spent over $10000 with this company.  I was electrically shocked SEVERAL times by their Velashape machine and permanently scarred by a Perlane injection.  I had previously received Botox and REstylane injections with no adverse side effects. The manager of the Tukwila, WA location (Toni) acted if it wouldn&#039;t be a problem to refund the money. I asked specifically if I would need to contact any one &#039;higher up&#039; for a refund. She said that she would just need to put in a request. I finally spoke with the Northwest manager, Shay, who said that I probably would not receive a refund because they had a no refund policy, but she would put in a request.  I said I had lost confidence and I wasn&#039;t interested in having any one touch me again.  I also questioned the company&#039;s integrity and ethics (none) if they couldn&#039;t be transparent about a no refund policy, especially if injury was involved.  I asked if the only way to receive a refund was to sue, and she said if I felt that was the right thing to do.  I&#039;ve never sued before, I&#039;ve never been a complainer, I hate confrontation, and I have high pain tolerance (so I know I was really hurt when the machine shocked me, and when I reacted to Perlane), but I&#039;m ready to sue.  I was going to contact the CEO, but I think that is a waste of time.  If you would like to split attorney fees and join me, please contact Linda at (253)278-4733 or llimon@u.washington.edu
Let&#039;s stop them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish I could believe that this company had changed, but it has not.  I have spent over $10000 with this company.  I was electrically shocked SEVERAL times by their Velashape machine and permanently scarred by a Perlane injection.  I had previously received Botox and REstylane injections with no adverse side effects. The manager of the Tukwila, WA location (Toni) acted if it wouldn&#8217;t be a problem to refund the money. I asked specifically if I would need to contact any one &#8216;higher up&#8217; for a refund. She said that she would just need to put in a request. I finally spoke with the Northwest manager, Shay, who said that I probably would not receive a refund because they had a no refund policy, but she would put in a request.  I said I had lost confidence and I wasn&#8217;t interested in having any one touch me again.  I also questioned the company&#8217;s integrity and ethics (none) if they couldn&#8217;t be transparent about a no refund policy, especially if injury was involved.  I asked if the only way to receive a refund was to sue, and she said if I felt that was the right thing to do.  I&#8217;ve never sued before, I&#8217;ve never been a complainer, I hate confrontation, and I have high pain tolerance (so I know I was really hurt when the machine shocked me, and when I reacted to Perlane), but I&#8217;m ready to sue.  I was going to contact the CEO, but I think that is a waste of time.  If you would like to split attorney fees and join me, please contact Linda at (253)278-4733 or <a href="mailto:llimon@u.washington.edu">llimon@u.washington.edu</a><br />
Let&#8217;s stop them.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Day 1:  Isabel Lorraine is Born! by Alison Wood</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/09/26/day-1-isabel-lorraine-is-born/#comment-1182</link>
		<dc:creator>Alison Wood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 20:59:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Many congratulations on the birth of Isabel - I have been checking every day and then I go and miss the event. Best wishes to you and all your girls, Ali</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many congratulations on the birth of Isabel &#8211; I have been checking every day and then I go and miss the event. Best wishes to you and all your girls, Ali</p>
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		<title>Comment on Pure Med Spa Again by Linda</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/03/17/pure-med-spa-again/#comment-1181</link>
		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 02:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Please contact me with ideas on how to receive a refund of several thousands of dollars that I spent at Brite Smile/Pure Med Spa (post bankruptcy).  I purchased 22 sessions of Velashape (now I see from websites that it only takes about 5 sessions), which SHOCKED me several times (at least 6 times) before the technician asked someone out front what to do, and then they changed the head on the machine.  I then went in to use the Restylane I had purchased (3 syringes), even though it only took 1 to do the job.  The saleswoman upsold me to Perlane, even though she knew I wanted to use it in my frown line between my eyebrows.  I have searched the internet, and all the physicians who commented on this procedure said that they would NEVER use Perlane in this location due to the delicate blood vessels. I had a reaction, it became infected, I got a big bruise, ugly blisters and scabs, seepage and now a scar...permanently.  The manager said that my money would be refunded, but nothing has happened, and I have been calling every day.  The area manager doesn&#039;t call me either, and I think they&#039;re avoiding me!  

I just want the money back for the services I never received.  It doesn&#039;t look like this company has changed at all.  I have tried calling the toll free number as well as the Tukwila, WA location, but I&#039;m still not getting help.  The physician who they brought over to look at my infection, was less than honest when he replied that &quot;he would have to see what I looked like before deciding&quot; if he would use erlane in the area between my eyes.  The fact is that the dermatologist I&#039;m seeing now said she would never do it, and all the doctors I&#039;ve heard have said they would never use Perlane.  If he would have to see it first, why was it okay for a salesperson with no medical experience to tell me it would be better and last longer???</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please contact me with ideas on how to receive a refund of several thousands of dollars that I spent at Brite Smile/Pure Med Spa (post bankruptcy).  I purchased 22 sessions of Velashape (now I see from websites that it only takes about 5 sessions), which SHOCKED me several times (at least 6 times) before the technician asked someone out front what to do, and then they changed the head on the machine.  I then went in to use the Restylane I had purchased (3 syringes), even though it only took 1 to do the job.  The saleswoman upsold me to Perlane, even though she knew I wanted to use it in my frown line between my eyebrows.  I have searched the internet, and all the physicians who commented on this procedure said that they would NEVER use Perlane in this location due to the delicate blood vessels. I had a reaction, it became infected, I got a big bruise, ugly blisters and scabs, seepage and now a scar&#8230;permanently.  The manager said that my money would be refunded, but nothing has happened, and I have been calling every day.  The area manager doesn&#8217;t call me either, and I think they&#8217;re avoiding me!  </p>
<p>I just want the money back for the services I never received.  It doesn&#8217;t look like this company has changed at all.  I have tried calling the toll free number as well as the Tukwila, WA location, but I&#8217;m still not getting help.  The physician who they brought over to look at my infection, was less than honest when he replied that &#8220;he would have to see what I looked like before deciding&#8221; if he would use erlane in the area between my eyes.  The fact is that the dermatologist I&#8217;m seeing now said she would never do it, and all the doctors I&#8217;ve heard have said they would never use Perlane.  If he would have to see it first, why was it okay for a salesperson with no medical experience to tell me it would be better and last longer???</p>
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		<title>Comment on Tales of a Grumpy Mailman by Charly</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2008/01/30/tales-of-a-grumpy-mailman/#comment-1180</link>
		<dc:creator>Charly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 09:15:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve noticed the date when I posted my first entry on this blog site. Almost a month later to the day I had an aortic valve replacement. Stress related? Hmmm...evidently I was born with my problem that no one ever found and mine kept getting worse because of stress in our PO. I&#039;m good to go now. The partly stress causee is not in our office at the moment.

Carriers are timed on every single thing they do, even rural carriers. That could be the reason he/she cuts over your lawn. Chances are that if you complain, he&#039;ll get in trouble. No matter if he was told to cut across or not. That&#039;s the postal way. I&#039;ve learned that rules change as they go along and it&#039;s usually rules that benefit management. But, on that note, I&#039;ve got to go. All of you reading this blog site have a glorious day and God bless.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve noticed the date when I posted my first entry on this blog site. Almost a month later to the day I had an aortic valve replacement. Stress related? Hmmm&#8230;evidently I was born with my problem that no one ever found and mine kept getting worse because of stress in our PO. I&#8217;m good to go now. The partly stress causee is not in our office at the moment.</p>
<p>Carriers are timed on every single thing they do, even rural carriers. That could be the reason he/she cuts over your lawn. Chances are that if you complain, he&#8217;ll get in trouble. No matter if he was told to cut across or not. That&#8217;s the postal way. I&#8217;ve learned that rules change as they go along and it&#8217;s usually rules that benefit management. But, on that note, I&#8217;ve got to go. All of you reading this blog site have a glorious day and God bless.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Tales of a Grumpy Mailman by jennyw</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2008/01/30/tales-of-a-grumpy-mailman/#comment-1179</link>
		<dc:creator>jennyw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 01:54:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alot of city carriers are required to cut across lawns by management.  They are timed on every step they take and if they go over their time they get in trouble.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alot of city carriers are required to cut across lawns by management.  They are timed on every step they take and if they go over their time they get in trouble.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Television is So Dumb by Jessica</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/09/21/so-dumb/#comment-1178</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 18:23:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kristen, It seems to me that you don&#039;t have a clue when it comes to young children. They have a massive imagination and whatever their living situation may be, doesn&#039;t necessarily have anything to do with the way he/she plays and makes things up. Children aren&#039;t completely understanding of what a marriage is and that being said, i cant believe that you had the audacity to call this woman out on her way of living. Shame on you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kristen, It seems to me that you don&#8217;t have a clue when it comes to young children. They have a massive imagination and whatever their living situation may be, doesn&#8217;t necessarily have anything to do with the way he/she plays and makes things up. Children aren&#8217;t completely understanding of what a marriage is and that being said, i cant believe that you had the audacity to call this woman out on her way of living. Shame on you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Pure Med Spa Again by Dean</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/03/17/pure-med-spa-again/#comment-1177</link>
		<dc:creator>Dean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 13:31:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been approached to do business with them and would like to chat with you for a minute.  If you have time, please call me at 212-688-2600 x 303.
Thanks,
Dean</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been approached to do business with them and would like to chat with you for a minute.  If you have time, please call me at 212-688-2600 x 303.<br />
Thanks,<br />
Dean</p>
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		<title>Comment on How it Is by Dan</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/05/31/how-it-is/#comment-1175</link>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 07:27:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This makes so little sense.

&quot;Maybe I should be glad I get to know why.&quot;

You don&#039;t know what you&#039;re talking about.  Maybe you should be glad that you think you do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This makes so little sense.</p>
<p>&#8220;Maybe I should be glad I get to know why.&#8221;</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t know what you&#8217;re talking about.  Maybe you should be glad that you think you do.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Television is So Dumb by Lara</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/09/21/so-dumb/#comment-1168</link>
		<dc:creator>Lara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 04:09:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t happen to believe in traditional &quot;marriage&quot; based in outdated   patriarchal systems, religious bigotry, and ownership of women, so   your version of morality is misplaced. 

Your little idea that my daughter somehow &quot;craves&quot; marriage is   also presumptive and ridiculous. She went to a wedding the week before   and loved the decorations and dresses. 

Also, you clearly lack reading comprehension skills. I made the point that after she got over being bored because she knew the idiot box would not entertain her, she stopped complaining of boredom and entertained herself.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t happen to believe in traditional &#8220;marriage&#8221; based in outdated   patriarchal systems, religious bigotry, and ownership of women, so   your version of morality is misplaced. </p>
<p>Your little idea that my daughter somehow &#8220;craves&#8221; marriage is   also presumptive and ridiculous. She went to a wedding the week before   and loved the decorations and dresses. </p>
<p>Also, you clearly lack reading comprehension skills. I made the point that after she got over being bored because she knew the idiot box would not entertain her, she stopped complaining of boredom and entertained herself.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Television is So Dumb by Kristin</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/09/21/so-dumb/#comment-1167</link>
		<dc:creator>Kristin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 04:04:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So, your example of living with your boyfriend and having his baby is somehow a &quot;better&quot; example than your ex-boyfriend&#039;s daughter watching TV???!  Perhaps the wedding she created between 2 dogs is the projection of what she craves from you.  A marriage and family.  A unit.  A unity.

Or perhaps there is someone else she is looking at as a role-model?  Some other example she is shining after??  Anyone in her vast circle planning a wedding?  Now you just have to wonder why she is so deeply moved by this to copy it into her &quot;boring&quot; playtime sans TV.  

Or perhaps your mother&#039;s negativity has been embedded once again.  What a lovely vibe to bring your next child into the world.  Kudos on setting the stage for a grandiose repeat.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, your example of living with your boyfriend and having his baby is somehow a &#8220;better&#8221; example than your ex-boyfriend&#8217;s daughter watching TV???!  Perhaps the wedding she created between 2 dogs is the projection of what she craves from you.  A marriage and family.  A unit.  A unity.</p>
<p>Or perhaps there is someone else she is looking at as a role-model?  Some other example she is shining after??  Anyone in her vast circle planning a wedding?  Now you just have to wonder why she is so deeply moved by this to copy it into her &#8220;boring&#8221; playtime sans TV.  </p>
<p>Or perhaps your mother&#8217;s negativity has been embedded once again.  What a lovely vibe to bring your next child into the world.  Kudos on setting the stage for a grandiose repeat.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Let&#8217;s Eliminate Pure Med Spa by avictimalso</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2008/11/24/lets-eliminate-pure-med-spa/#comment-1166</link>
		<dc:creator>avictimalso</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 03:46:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, 

I am a former employee.  Everything on here sounds exactly right. The first week I worked, another employee told me that several of her payroll checks bounced or that she was paid late almost every pay check.  I ask the manager if this was correct she promised me it wasn&#039;t. Later that day that employee was terminated. Every pay period our checks were late. Then I had a payroll check bounce.   I complained  about this and about equipment not working and was told I was being &quot;NEGATIVE&quot;.  The manager stated any negative was considered cancerous and would be cut out. They threatened jobs and pay every week. I was told on several occasions that if the equipment wasn&#039;t working, i was to &quot;fake it&quot;. I am a RN. I am not going to &quot;fake&quot; anything. I saw Dysport bottles being kept for weeks and weeks. I saw an eviction notice and was told &quot;we are renegotiating our lease&quot;. The product rep for Priori (the product line) told me that she was worried because none of the invoices were paid.  The reps for Restylane said they gave our spa several syringes for training but sold them to clients instead and we owed them money so we wouldn&#039;t be getting any more. Yet they were still selling them. I have seen the regional manager Corine lie about treatments or when equipment would be fixed.  They have closed stores with no notice to clients or employees. 

Please do not spend your money here. These are bad people and care NOTHING about you after you spend money.  Brite Smile is Pure. it is the same people running it. They want you to think its new but its not...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, </p>
<p>I am a former employee.  Everything on here sounds exactly right. The first week I worked, another employee told me that several of her payroll checks bounced or that she was paid late almost every pay check.  I ask the manager if this was correct she promised me it wasn&#8217;t. Later that day that employee was terminated. Every pay period our checks were late. Then I had a payroll check bounce.   I complained  about this and about equipment not working and was told I was being &#8220;NEGATIVE&#8221;.  The manager stated any negative was considered cancerous and would be cut out. They threatened jobs and pay every week. I was told on several occasions that if the equipment wasn&#8217;t working, i was to &#8220;fake it&#8221;. I am a RN. I am not going to &#8220;fake&#8221; anything. I saw Dysport bottles being kept for weeks and weeks. I saw an eviction notice and was told &#8220;we are renegotiating our lease&#8221;. The product rep for Priori (the product line) told me that she was worried because none of the invoices were paid.  The reps for Restylane said they gave our spa several syringes for training but sold them to clients instead and we owed them money so we wouldn&#8217;t be getting any more. Yet they were still selling them. I have seen the regional manager Corine lie about treatments or when equipment would be fixed.  They have closed stores with no notice to clients or employees. </p>
<p>Please do not spend your money here. These are bad people and care NOTHING about you after you spend money.  Brite Smile is Pure. it is the same people running it. They want you to think its new but its not&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Television is So Dumb by phintias</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/09/21/so-dumb/#comment-1165</link>
		<dc:creator>phintias</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 21:11:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish that you could somehow bring your daughter&#039;s father around the raising and education of your children -- because you will need a united adult front committed to clear goals if you are to succeed in inspiring them to become fully independent and creative. Put them first - ahead of any petty quarrels and disappointments - and doing so in full, painful awareness of what might befall them if they are raised under a discordant, nebulous family structure with no clear lines of authority and little sense of the tragic future that inevitably follows therefrom -- unless a potent awakening and reorientation is effected. Unsolicited advice: along with what is obviously a profound love of animals and nature, teach them to first speak properly, sing, dance, and play an instrument. Disallow television and certainly do not let them become addicted to machines and gadgets and obsessed by cellphones and other means of rendering them into automatons for pop culture soul killers. For them to think and feel for themself, they need to steer clear of the beast that invites them to lose themselves in the hypnotic spell of talking heads and pop idols. To tell a story, memorize a song, write a poem and do so without a machine and primarily with, for, and in imitation of adults acting their best and most beautiful self. And do so with the classics -- with for instance, Aesop&#039;s Fables, Classical mythology, the Bible, and as early as possible, Shakespeare and the like; the drawings and sketches of Leonardo da Vinci rather than coloring books; Bach, Mozart, Beethoven, Brahms if at all possible with folk songs and negro spirituals and all forms of singing that founded on learning to read and even compose music -- music founded on ideals, morals, and stories -- the very opposite of what our mind-destroying, overly sensual popular and pornographic culture portends --  and refuse to allow them to follow as another dupe the idiocy of mimicking and simulating a musical experience by parroting, mindlessly, a machine, computer, radio. Machines that turn children into cheerful robots, easily frustrated barely contained balls of rage -- automatons mindlessly repeating Brave New World-like slogans and even psychological deadening. Upon that foundation, reading and writing naturally follow but to put reading first without teaching a child to speak and sing and know the scale is to cripple them because self-confidence founded on making oneself a beautiful soul -- through aesthetic education of the body, mind, and soul and the social action and interaction that flows therefrom trumps all. Sewing and fashion - which I take to be a strong suit of your kin would flow best from a child that is grounded in knowing herself as a beautiful soul in the making. A soul who could wade into clothes and the illusory world of fashion and know what is truly sweet in life. And knowing the beauty within oneself by means of singing and dancing, martial arts, yoga, and forms of self discipline must be first and foremost. A total resolution to raise your children as if Genius Can Be Taught! Learn from and respect adults -- but if the adults are not committed to such a program and instead mired in sullen resentment and morose regret, then what will be the result? If the adults do not respect each other, then the children will see that and exploit the animosity in order to garner favors which will inevitably spoil them. A united adult front to engender sound morals and self-development with a total commitment [entschlossenheit] to help inspire a child to become fully and beautifully and potently human. Now with that said, I exhort you to recall the self-destructive members of your family and redeem their mistakes by inviting, inspiring your Mother and Boyfriend and Father to help you create a loving extended family that will support its own and cover for each other during crisis. In so doing, you will give all of the members of your extended family a purpose - to include those who have fallen by the wayside - and inspire the best from each and every one of you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish that you could somehow bring your daughter&#8217;s father around the raising and education of your children &#8212; because you will need a united adult front committed to clear goals if you are to succeed in inspiring them to become fully independent and creative. Put them first &#8211; ahead of any petty quarrels and disappointments &#8211; and doing so in full, painful awareness of what might befall them if they are raised under a discordant, nebulous family structure with no clear lines of authority and little sense of the tragic future that inevitably follows therefrom &#8212; unless a potent awakening and reorientation is effected. Unsolicited advice: along with what is obviously a profound love of animals and nature, teach them to first speak properly, sing, dance, and play an instrument. Disallow television and certainly do not let them become addicted to machines and gadgets and obsessed by cellphones and other means of rendering them into automatons for pop culture soul killers. For them to think and feel for themself, they need to steer clear of the beast that invites them to lose themselves in the hypnotic spell of talking heads and pop idols. To tell a story, memorize a song, write a poem and do so without a machine and primarily with, for, and in imitation of adults acting their best and most beautiful self. And do so with the classics &#8212; with for instance, Aesop&#8217;s Fables, Classical mythology, the Bible, and as early as possible, Shakespeare and the like; the drawings and sketches of Leonardo da Vinci rather than coloring books; Bach, Mozart, Beethoven, Brahms if at all possible with folk songs and negro spirituals and all forms of singing that founded on learning to read and even compose music &#8212; music founded on ideals, morals, and stories &#8212; the very opposite of what our mind-destroying, overly sensual popular and pornographic culture portends &#8212;  and refuse to allow them to follow as another dupe the idiocy of mimicking and simulating a musical experience by parroting, mindlessly, a machine, computer, radio. Machines that turn children into cheerful robots, easily frustrated barely contained balls of rage &#8212; automatons mindlessly repeating Brave New World-like slogans and even psychological deadening. Upon that foundation, reading and writing naturally follow but to put reading first without teaching a child to speak and sing and know the scale is to cripple them because self-confidence founded on making oneself a beautiful soul &#8212; through aesthetic education of the body, mind, and soul and the social action and interaction that flows therefrom trumps all. Sewing and fashion &#8211; which I take to be a strong suit of your kin would flow best from a child that is grounded in knowing herself as a beautiful soul in the making. A soul who could wade into clothes and the illusory world of fashion and know what is truly sweet in life. And knowing the beauty within oneself by means of singing and dancing, martial arts, yoga, and forms of self discipline must be first and foremost. A total resolution to raise your children as if Genius Can Be Taught! Learn from and respect adults &#8212; but if the adults are not committed to such a program and instead mired in sullen resentment and morose regret, then what will be the result? If the adults do not respect each other, then the children will see that and exploit the animosity in order to garner favors which will inevitably spoil them. A united adult front to engender sound morals and self-development with a total commitment [entschlossenheit] to help inspire a child to become fully and beautifully and potently human. Now with that said, I exhort you to recall the self-destructive members of your family and redeem their mistakes by inviting, inspiring your Mother and Boyfriend and Father to help you create a loving extended family that will support its own and cover for each other during crisis. In so doing, you will give all of the members of your extended family a purpose &#8211; to include those who have fallen by the wayside &#8211; and inspire the best from each and every one of you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why are the Neighbors Murdering the Trees? by viewfromasia</title>
		<link>http://laragardner.wordpress.com/2009/09/16/why-are-the-neighbors-murdering-the-trees/#comment-1163</link>
		<dc:creator>viewfromasia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 07:40:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It really breaks my heart when people do this.We have the same problem here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It really breaks my heart when people do this.We have the same problem here.</p>
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